mom s diary

  This is one of the proof that God created everything well.  This is the proof that God is exist and God love us.

When you pay attention to the women’s bodies you will find out that they are amazing. They are able to produce the perfect food for our babies and while doing so, both mother and child derive numerous benefits.

What is actually happen to woman’s body?

During pregnancy, changes in the breasts signal the onset of milk production. By your 3rd or 4th month, the size of the milk ducts and number of milk cells within your breasts increase in size. You can’t help but notice how much heavier your breasts feel and how sensitive they have become. Your nipples and areolas also darken to help your newborn baby find them!

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I am a working mom and I have a five years old son. My office is in my home. I like it because I can still watch my son grow up while working.

But, he often asked for my attention and always wanted to play with me while I had to complete my job. Everytime he asked me to play with him, I told him to watch TV.

At first that was helping me. But then I realize that he is watching too much TV. I often tell him to play with his friends but he doesn’t want it. He is enjoying the TV. I just can’t stop him from watching TV. What should I do now? (From Jinnie)

Well, I think a lot of mother have a same problem with Jinnie. TV with the attractive programs for children can be so poisonous for our children. TV can become a replacement for family interaction.

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Twenty days ahead her wedding, a colleague cried out, Geez with your diet tips…I need to looks slimmer and lose it now.

Regrettably, we have became habituated to instant gratification and demand it on every ocassion. As about being slimmer, the condition just can’t happen immediately. Correct, I can show a colleague how to be slimmer directly, but I can’t promise she’ll cope with it longer.

And jeez what it’s all about? Controlling weight off and not involving to healthy diet in the first place–this is your main target.

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1.B. Be careful for an accident to children at home
Accident to children at home is one important thing we should concern about. Here are some tips to minimize it without you having say no all the time.

1. Make sure the environment is good for growing the children.
2. You should check the locks of the windows especially in our children bedroom.
3. Keep medicines and pills away from children’s reach.
4. Cover electrical sockets.
5. To prevent our children climbing out and falling out, move furniture away from the windows.

For me, my children is everything to me. They are my life. Watching them grow day by day and taking a good care of them has become one of our important duty. Many things we do for our children and many things we think for our children, such as :
1. Children’s health
2. Children education
3. Children’s friends
4. Children toys
5. Children’s mind

1. Children’s health
Our children’s health is very important to us as a mother. We’ll do everything to make them healthy. Serving healthy food and drink, going to doctor and always prepare for some medicine is just few things we do for them. Now, lets talk about our children’s health more.

1.A. Watch out for their temperature
Children often get a fever. What is fever actually? A fever is when you have a high body temperature over 38C or 100.4F. In children, the temperature above 38C is classes in fever.
Now, what should we do when our children get a fever ?

1. Don’t be panic, especially when you are alone.
2. Make sure his temperature by using thermometer. It is fever or not.
3. If it is a fever, you can still take care of your child at home by giving him a paracetamol.
4. If the temperature is very high try to give him antibiotics because it may be infection.
5. If your child has difficulty breathing, unusual rash, headache or other worrying symptoms, go to the hospital immediately.

What the next, please wait me as mother part II

12. Be romance to him
Give him an unexpected kiss or leave a message of love on his voice mail. Men like to be romanced too.

13. Surprise him with small prize sometimes.
One small handkerchief tied with red ribbon might surprise him and make him has a new spirit in working that day. And of course you’ll get a nice and warm kiss from him. Isn’t that nice?

14. Be his best friend.
In getting trough of your marriage, you and your husband must be able to be a good team and a good partner, especially when you have kids. Be his best friend so when he has some trouble he always knows where to go, to you.

15. Trust him
You choose him to be your husband. So, you trust him to be your husband.
It’s your own choice, your own decision. So, keep on trusting him in your marriage. I know sometimes you feel that he’s changing. Maybe you both are changing. Remember, don’t forget to discuss everything together. Solve all trouble together. You both love each other. If you trust him and he trust you, then it is easy for you to talk each other. Once again, trust him.

8. Acceptance
Accept him whoever he is. Don’t try to change him. You don’t want anyone to change you, are you? So does he.

9. Less chatter when the time and condition is not good
When your husband get home and he looks so tired with his job and project, and there is something important you really want to talk about, you better get to the point.

10. Give him time to take a rest and be alone for a while.
When your husband first get home, give him sometimes to be alone and to take a rest for a while. Serve him with his favorite food and drink. Don’t forget to give him your best smile and warm kiss.

11. Respect him
Show respect for your husband by not making negative comments about his thoughts and opinions, by being considerate of his plans, and by avoiding the “eye roll” when listening to him.

Don’t be tight about money. Okay, so blowing money day after day isn’t the best thing to do, but don’t automatically say no to everything your kid asks for. If you always say no and follow this with a lecture about saving money, you will be known as the “Tight Parent”, the one who never buys anything. Buy something small every now and then. Even offering to purchase some candy or chips at the petrol station can make a difference. Every now and then buy something big that you are sure your kid wants. For example, an iPod, or a bike. And be generous at birthdays. This can include taking a special day to go out to dinner, see a movie, and choose a nice gift or receive nice gifts from parents.

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Be patient. Being a mother is a little challenging sometimes, especially if you have a daughter. But keep your cool and try to stay patient. Your daughter snuck into your room and put on your makeup? Explain to her the practical reasons why she shouldn’t do this, such as hygiene, clogging pores, etc. Then tell her why you don’t like her doing it- she’ll muck up her skin at this young age, this is your makeup, etc. Try this approach to other problems. Stay calm, explain the practical reasons not to do something, and then why YOU don’t want them to do something.

Take an interest in your child’s interests. If your son likes cars, maybe buy him a model car he can make. Ask questions, like what is your favorite type of car, which model is that car, etc. If your daughter is interested in animals, buy her something like a magazine for animals, and tell her some interesting sites and books she can look at. Ask her what her favorite animal is, info about animals, etc. Make an effort.

You can see the others; movie, games, soccer and football, youngster and tour and travel.

3. Appreciate him
Appreciate him and he will appreciate you. Always thanks to your husband for what he has been doing for his family. He has already work hard all day long for his family. It is not about how much money he get, it is about how hard he try. Further more if he help you doing your homework. He’s not always doing that, does he?

4. Tell him you love him
Tell him you love him and show him your love in every little thing you do. For some people, especially people in the east, it is not easy to say ‘I love you’ . just try it. You’ll feel strange at first, but you’ll get usual with it.

5. Be the real you.
Look inside you. The real you. We are woman. There are so many kindest we truly have as a woman. It is naturally there. Control your self and you’ll find that you are kind and gentle.

6. Never ever bring up past problem
It will be better for you if you just forget the past problems once they have solved.

7. Compliment your husband often
Compliment your husband often but don’t be over in doing it.