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12. Be romance to him
Give him an unexpected kiss or leave a message of love on his voice mail. Men like to be romanced too.
13. Surprise him with small prize sometimes.
One small handkerchief tied with red ribbon might surprise him and make him has a new spirit in working that day. And of course you’ll get a nice and warm kiss from him. Isn’t that nice?
14. Be his best friend.
In getting trough of your marriage, you and your husband must be able to be a good team and a good partner, especially when you have kids. Be his best friend so when he has some trouble he always knows where to go, to you.
15. Trust him
You choose him to be your husband. So, you trust him to be your husband.
It’s your own choice, your own decision. So, keep on trusting him in your marriage. I know sometimes you feel that he’s changing. Maybe you both are changing. Remember, don’t forget to discuss everything together. Solve all trouble together. You both love each other. If you trust him and he trust you, then it is easy for you to talk each other. Once again, trust him.
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8. Acceptance
Accept him whoever he is. Don’t try to change him. You don’t want anyone to change you, are you? So does he.
9. Less chatter when the time and condition is not good
When your husband get home and he looks so tired with his job and project, and there is something important you really want to talk about, you better get to the point.
10. Give him time to take a rest and be alone for a while.
When your husband first get home, give him sometimes to be alone and to take a rest for a while. Serve him with his favorite food and drink. Don’t forget to give him your best smile and warm kiss.
11. Respect him
Show respect for your husband by not making negative comments about his thoughts and opinions, by being considerate of his plans, and by avoiding the “eye roll” when listening to him.


