mom s diary http://twenty-plus.com Sun, 27 Jul 2008 02:55:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 en The ten way for making the child share http://twenty-plus.com/mother/the-ten-way-for-making-the-child-share.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/the-ten-way-for-making-the-child-share.moms/#comments Tue, 22 Jul 2008 05:38:42 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/mother/the-ten-way-for-making-the-child-share.moms/ We are sometimes frustrated in facing children unwilling to tell his good and bad life to us. It doesn’t occur to teenager, but also to an infant. Well, why don’t you try to implement one of the ten idea, ok. Here we go…

1. Don’t force
The stronger you force them, they will close themselves. If you  relax, they will probably easier to share.

2. Always exist for them
The children are sensitive enough to your activity. If you look busy, they will know, but if you have leisure time for you and them. They will be easy to share.

3. Involve yourself
Try to involve in their activity, like joining to play basket, cycling. By playing with them they will be closer up.

4. Not judge
If we judge when he talks, other time he is not interested to share his feeling anymore. Show your eagerness without giving judgment “right “ or “ wrong “

5. The way we ask
A question started with word “ why “ , tend to create a protection. The ‘yes and no’ question will not give much response. Give a question to give stimulation like “ what do you see of that painting ?. Than you ask “ you like or not with that paintings ?

6. A car as a place to have a talk
When you take and fetch them, try to talk with them. It is little disturbance from guests or they are enjoying before TV or computer.

7. Give response
Knowing you listen and care what he tells , will make them feeling supported from you that stimulate them to tell more.

8. Involve in children hobby
Ask to talk while he paints, color and draw. This is very effective for small child. By joining it, you will be sensitive to share with them.

9. Provide the time to have fun
If the children feel you provide time for them, whatever the activity is, trust me, they will be gladly to share with you. Remember be a good listener.

10. Be parents and friends for them
If you act like a parent and friend, it can preserve the children willingness to share with you.

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/the-ten-way-for-making-the-child-share.moms/feed/ Safely tooth brush for child http://twenty-plus.com/mother/safely-tooth-brush-for-child.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/safely-tooth-brush-for-child.moms/#comments Thu, 17 Jul 2008 04:11:52 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/mother/safely-tooth-brush-for-child.moms/ Where do you save your tooth brush ? Bath room wasteful ? Actually there is no wrong to put on it. But, if it is near closet, it will be a matter.

According to biologist from Arizona university, USA, there are more or less 3,2 million bacteria in every 2,5 cm 2 of closet. Wow..! While you wash the water into the closet, the air spurts will bring to the area till 1,8 meter. It means , the wasteful and tooth brush can be infected.

Want to keep your teeth health ? The way, clean with flowing water before using and saving in close area like behind the mirror or drugs box in the bath room.

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/safely-tooth-brush-for-child.moms/feed/ How much salary is , will be enough ! http://twenty-plus.com/mother/how-much-salary-is-will-be-enough.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/how-much-salary-is-will-be-enough.moms/#comments Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:09:04 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/mother/how-much-salary-is-will-be-enough.moms/ Are you confused to know that your parents with only civil servant with enough salary can satisfy all family in one month and educate us till university ? Don’t be shocked, the key is salary management.
Like what happened to Jeremy ( 25 ) , single  get salary 3 million  every month. However, he feels it is not enough. Every end of month, he still withdraw his saving account or even borrow to his friend to continue the rest of month.
One of Jeremy mistaken, he used to write his outcome every month, and he let money flow as his desire, not his need. Please, understand it he wants to enjoy his salary first.
Actually , the point is how the salary can be used for daily operation , but can be save some for future. well, the saving can be really for future, but for unexpectedly need.
According to money planner, based on the monthly usage salary, the outcome can be categorized into four stages, like :

1. Outcome for daily cost pose
2. Paying on installment pose
3. Insurance premi pose
4. Saving and investment pose

Installment and savings
Now we already know what will be the must outcome every month. Than what make the priority of those pose ?
The first one is to pay the installment. Our life won’t be peace to chase by it. This must 30 % of the monthly income. Including all kind of installment.
The second priority is saving and investment ( if any ) . It is not much just 10 % of  your income ( more is better )
The third priority to pay the insurance premium. The budget is 10-20 % from your income every month. If you don’t have it you can continue to next pose. But if you are interested, don’t buy too many. Just choose the one can anticipate the risk and take the economical premium bonus.
At last, is everyday out come. This includes food, transport, pulse and so forth. Why it is made the last priority ? Because it is more flexible. Like the budget on transportation. Ideally , you can save 50% from your monthly payment.

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/how-much-salary-is-will-be-enough.moms/feed/ Daddy, I wanna play with you… http://twenty-plus.com/mother/daddy-i-wanna-play-with-you.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/daddy-i-wanna-play-with-you.moms/#comments Thu, 03 Jul 2008 02:58:46 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/2008/07/02/daddy-i-wanna-play-with-you/ How much time do you spend with your children in the day?

If you are a working father, you will need to spend about 3 minutes a day with your children.

Fathers who abandon their families, fathers who rarely see their children because of divorce, and fathers who are busy and have very little or nothing to do with the raising of their children are common.

Dad gets up early, takes the long drive to work, gets off late, takes the long drive home, and gets home very tired. He just wants to have dinner, relax a little, and go to bed so that he can repeat the same routine the next day. Every now and then, he tells himself that he will spend more time with his children tomorrow.

Quality time spent between a father and his children is essential for both the parent and the children. The children need to know that their father loves and cares for them, and the father needs to be careful that he does not lose his relationship with his children by neglect.

So, have you spend your time with your children today?

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/daddy-i-wanna-play-with-you.moms/feed/ Who Gets the Bigger Piece? http://twenty-plus.com/mother/who-gets-the-bigger-piece.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/who-gets-the-bigger-piece.moms/#comments Sun, 15 Jun 2008 02:41:50 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/2008/06/14/who-gets-the-bigger-piece/ image-thumb5 Who Gets the Bigger Piece? Having many children is fun but sometimes confusing too.  Small fights happen everyday.  But the most common fights between our children is when they are asking about who get the bigger peace?

If we have a big chocolate cake, be ready on their fighting.  But you can eliminate this fighting.  I have simple tips for you.

When you have a big chocolate cake to share between your children, you can try to let one child to cut the piece and let the other child to pick which piece they want first.

You should try it ’cause i did and it works.  They are stop fighting about who get the bigger piece.

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image-thumb4 Be a Happy and Healthy Mom Do you want to be a healthy and happy mom? 

The best thing that you can do for yourself as well as for your kids is make time for yourself, at least 30 minutes a day three times a week to get some type of exercise in.

It will make you feel more energetic as well as less grumpy or tired.

It is so simple and easy but will make you be a healthy and happy mom.

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/be-a-happy-and-healthy-mom.moms/feed/ Are You Often Say "no" to your Child? http://twenty-plus.com/mother/are-you-often-say-no-to-your-child.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/are-you-often-say-no-to-your-child.moms/#comments Sun, 08 Jun 2008 21:28:06 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/2008/06/08/are-you-often-say-no-to-your-child/  

image-thumb3 Are You Often Say "no" to your Child? If you are too often saying no to your child, they might won’t listen to you again.

When you want to get your child, especially a young child, to not do something, direct the child’s attention to something else more positive.

A child who is told "NO" too often will quit listening to that word
and do what it wants. Also, don’t just treat the child like it’s sub-human. Talk to a child when correcting and don’t yell.

It is not as easy as it looks but you must try it.

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Currently, I’m trying to potty train my 27 month old daughter. I’ve had great success by having her older 5 year old brother help to cheer her on.

He pees in the potty first to show her, encourage her, inspire her and then he chants along with me "you can do it, you can do it!".

If my daughter goes pee pee in the potty she gets one M & M (yes, I’m using bribery) and her brother gets one too.

So there is an added incentive for both of them and it really is working wonderfully!

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/tip-for-potty-training.moms/feed/ Have Some Mom Time for a While http://twenty-plus.com/mother/have-some-mom-time-for-a-while.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/have-some-mom-time-for-a-while.moms/#comments Mon, 02 Jun 2008 17:32:11 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/2008/06/02/have-some-mom-time-for-a-while/  

image-thumb1 Have Some Mom Time for a While Being a mom is absolutely tiring.  But, they are doing their duty with fun and happy.  That is why mom is every child’s hero.  Even, mom is the hero of the family.  She always take care of her family.

That’s why, moms need to take time for themselves, so they can better care for those around them! Here is some tips to have some mom time for a while.

1. Prepare for unexpected moments of quiet so you can take advantage of them.

2. Think about what you enjoy doing when you just have a few minutes such as listening to music, working on a craft, exercising, reading a book and eating chocolate (my favorite!)

3. Make sure you have the things you need to do these fun things such as a new CD; your favorite craft with all the supplies in the same place, easily available; exercise equipment; a new magazine and "good" chocolate (it’s OK to hide the "good" chocolate–kids and husbands don’t appreciate it anyway!

When the kids are quiet, take a quick peek to make sure no one is bleeding, cutting, or flushing anything they shouldn’t; don’t take out the garbage, don’t start supper, but take a few minutes to do something you enjoy!

Have a good mom time!

]]> http://twenty-plus.com/mother/have-some-mom-time-for-a-while.moms/feed/ Learn ABC while Brushing Teeth http://twenty-plus.com/mother/learn-abc-while-brushing-teeth.moms/ http://twenty-plus.com/mother/learn-abc-while-brushing-teeth.moms/#comments Fri, 30 May 2008 17:19:35 +0000 admin http://twenty-plus.com/2008/05/30/learn-abc-while-brushing-teeth/ image1 Learn ABC while Brushing Teeth

Brushing teeth will be more fun when we are willing to sing for our child.  Even, this will be a great time for them to learn about ABC or counting one to twenty.

Try to sing ABC while brushing teeth.  They will love it.  Then, you can count from one two twenty while brushing their teeth.

You can do this every nights.  Soon, your child will love his/her time on brushing teeth and be able to spell ABA and counting numbers.

This is a simple way to teach your children without taking any extra time and very little effort!

Do you want to try it?

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